Monthly Archives: January 2015

Women, what is sexy?

What does sexy mean? Sexually attractive, right? This post is to ask a few questions about women’s point of view. Firstly, I’d like to ask, why must you aim to be ‘sexually attractive’ and not just ‘attractive’?

Personally, it makes me sad that young women are unable to differentiate between the two. Instead, we hear words like elegant and classy used to describe sexy. Please, let’s not get it mixed up. The definition of sexy has been distorted so that women think that the only way that they will look good is to dress revealingly.

Women, ask yourselves this. Why do you dress sexy? Is it to feel good about yourself? What’s wrong with dressing respectfully? Then again, what is being dressed respectfully?

Females are taught from a young age that to look good, skin must be showing. Look at cartoons for little girls, look at adverts for clothes. They are filled with ‘sexy’ women wearing ‘sexy’ things. Surely, there must be someone else out there who agrees with me.

Then, we have people like Nicki Minaj and Kim Kardashian forced down our throats. Kim Kardashian is seen as a fashion icon, right? The woman took a photo with her ass hanging out and women are in a frenzy to follow her and be her. Then we have Nicki rapping about anacondas and asses and there’s no censors. This is the sad thing. It’s ok for kids to watch this and listen to it these days. It’s no use blocking out words like ‘fuck’ and ‘shit’ on videos when women are dressed half naked, shaking their asses, and talking about sex. It’s ok thought, they’re sexy.

Women, what are your thoughts? Am I thinking wrong? Do you see how our generation and future generation’s views on beauty is being distorted? I’d love to hear your views.

I don’t intent to offend anyone, they’re just my thoughts and concerns and would love to hear what others think.

Oh, and happy new year!